Ok seriously, wtf is wrong with people? This whole anti-gay movement is just… bizarre.
I came across this article about how Chic-fil-A is ani-gay marriage, and I wonder when I’ll get used to this level of intolerance. It just continues to blow my mind. Will I ever not feel shock and revulsion? I wonder when it will stop. I had a chat about this issue with someone who voted yes on prop 8, and the conversation degenerated into something like this:
me: Everyone should be allowed to get married.
him: But marriage is between a man and a woman, everyone knows that.
me: Says who?
him: I’m not sure why I have to explain this part. Where do people get married? In a church.
me: Or in front of a judge.
him: Well, if they want to, but let’s be honest, people get married in a church.
me: If they’re Christian, yeah.
him: Right, and that’s what we’re talking about.
me: Says who? You’re jumping to conclusions, not everyone in the world is Christian.
him: We’re talking about America.
me: Not everyone in America is Christian.
him: Most of them are, and that’s the point. The majority rules, and the majority of people are straight men and women who would marry in a church. So when they vote, that’s how they’ll vote, and that’s their right.
me: You’ve missed the point completely. If they were voting for their own rights, that would make perfect sense, but they’re voting on the rights of others. They’re restricting the rights of others for no reason.
him: Of course there’s a reason; marriage is between a man and a woman.
me: Ok, what’s the point of a law? To protect people.
What if gays could marry? Who would get hurt? Who are we protecting by preventing gays from being allowed to get married?
him: Well the whole idea of marriage is between a man and a woman.
me: But that’s not the point of marriage, right? The point is to spend the rest of your life with someone you love.
him: Then they can say, “I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.” What’s wrong with that?
me: Are you asking me why a legal marriage certificate is a necessary part of marriage? It’s not. It’s a benefit that you’re withholding from certain people because of their sexual orientation. That’s illegal.
him: If it was illegal, it wouldn’t have been on the ballot.
me: Did you know that our president’s parents weren’t allowed to get married because one’s black and one’s white?
him: …No, actually, I didn’t.
me: I don’t see a difference here.
him: Well of course there’s a difference, you can tell just by looking at someone if they’re black or white.
me: So if all gays had a rainbow tattoo on their forehead, the two scenarios would no longer be different? Just because you can tell them apart from straights?
Then the topic magically got changed.
I just don’t get it.